Tim Weston

Thoughts and Learnings About Christianity and Youth Ministry

Review: Provocative Faith

At a youth workers conference earlier this year, I picked up a number of books that were on sale for only a few dollars. I recently finished one of those books, Matthew Paul Turner’s Provocative Faith.

The book is a fairly quick read (less than 200 pages) and turned out to be pretty decent.  As usual, I took several notes while reading; here are some of the things that stood out to me.

  • Freedom and faith come when we accept Jesus into our hearts.
  • Even when situations seem messed up, we must trust Jesus to know what is best.
  • “Although” faith, not “if” faith, allows us to endure despite the situation (e.g. “Although I am sick, I have faith” not “If I get well, I’ll have faith”).
  • Just because God doesn’t perform the miracles we want when we want them doesn’t mean He’s not actively involved in our life.
  • If you love people with all of your heart, you’ll be loving Jesus; if you love Jesus with all of your heart, you’ll be loving people.
  • We aren’t truly living until God pushes us outside of our comfort zones.

If you’re at all interested in Christian non-fiction, this book is worth a read.  In fact, you can pick up my copy on PaperBackSwap.

Service Project: Elijah’s Bowl Soup Kitchen

Today, my church’s youth group was scheduled to volunteer at a local soup kitchen called Elijah’s Bowl.  Earlier this week, I called the kids (and received lots of answering machine recordings) asking them to let me know if they were planning on attending.  I didn’t receive any responses, so I called the woman who organizes volunteers for the soup kitchen to let her know we’d only have a few people, so if she could get a few extra backups, that would be great.

On Thursday night, I was told that two of the youth and one of their parents would be joining me for the service project.  While it wasn’t as many people as I was hoping for, it would be a decent amount and it meant that we met our conference’s Safe Sanctuary requirements (two non-related adults when working with children).  It turned out, however, that only one of the kids came.

Knowing I was in a tough spot with our requirements, I spoke with my pastor (who was at a worship design meeting at the church) about adults who might be available.  We weren’t able to come up with any names, so we decided I would bring the lone child home and would go to the soup kitchen alone.

The four hours at Elijah’s Bowl went by very quickly.  There were seven of us, which seemed to be the perfect amount: enough people to do the work but not too many that we were in the way of each other.  I’m sure we could have used a few extra volunteers, but we weren’t in such bad shape that we couldn’t get the work done.

Though I didn’t count the number of people who came, I would guess we served around 80 people, probably more.  The pour economy is hitting the town (Sunbury) rather hard, as we weren’t able to provide take-out meals for people to bring home for later in the day/week.  I’m very glad I was able to help out because the experience shed a new light on how difficult things are right now.

For the few people who read my blog, if you’re able (and I’m guessing you are if you are fortunate enough to have access to the Internet), please donate food to your local soup kitchens (or grocery store gift cards so they can buy what they need when they need it and not be stuck with a hundred cans of creamed corn).  Additionally, and equally important, try to find time to help prepare and serve meals, whether it be once a quarter or once a month.  Those running soup kitchens rarely have enough staff, so I’m sure they’d love the help.

Vacation Bible School 2008

This past week I spent my evenings at my church’s annual Vacation Bible School.  In previous years we used Group’s VBS curriculum, but this year we opted for Cokesbury’s VBS Beach Party curriculum.

Like last year, I was a crew leader for a group of six to eight children (depending on the night), all but one of them boys.  The week was a blast, albeit very tiring; here’s a review of the week:

Monday

Sea Creature: Clown Fish
Be-Attitude: Be Obedient
Surfin’ Scripture: Obey my voice, and I will be your God, and you shall be my people. (Jeremiah 7:23)
Bible Story: The Call of Gideon (Judges 6:14-15; 6:36-7:21)

Tuesday

Sea Creature: Starfish
Be-Attitude: Be Kind
Surfin’ Scripture: As God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, clothe yourself in compassion, kindness, humility, meekness and patience. (Colossians 3:12)
Bible Story: David’s Kindness to Mephibosheth (2 Samuel 9:1-11)

Wednesday

Sea Creature: Oyster
Be-Attitude: Be Forgiving
Surfin’ Scripture: And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ has forgiven you. (Ephesians 4:32)
Bible Story: The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant (Matthew 18:21-33)

Thursday

Sea Creature: Sea Turtle
Be-Attitude: Be Bold
Surfin’ Scripture: And this is the boldness we have in him, that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. (1 John 5:14)
Bible Story: A Woman Healed (Luke 8:40-48)

Friday

Sea Creature: Sand Dollar
Be-Attitude: Believe
Surfin’ Scripture: Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have come to believe. (John 20:29b)
Bible Story: Jesus and Thomas (John 20:24-29)

By the end of the week, i think I was finally able to connect with the girl in my group.  She was very quiet most of the week, but she came into the church Friday night and wanted to show me a photo of her dog.  It was so awesome to see her open up like that.

Throughout the week I encouraged her to attend Sunday’s closing session and all she would say is “No.”  By Friday night, though, her response was “I think so.”  While it wasn’t a definitive  ”Yes” I was super excited that she had considered coming.

Next year I think we’re going back to Group’s curriculum, as some things, especially the pre-school lessons, weren’t as effective as in years past.  Despite that, we reached out to over 100 children each day–what an amazing ministry!

Twitter Tools Plugin Deactivated

A quick FYI to readers of my blog.  Earlier today I disabled one of the WordPress plugins I’ve been using for a number of weeks: Alex King’s Twitter Tools.

While I love the plugin because it allows me to show my recent tweets in my blog’s sidebar, I had to disable the plugin because it was slowing down the WordPress administrative panel.  While I don’t know for certain, I’m guessing it wasn’t really the plugin, but instead some of Twitter’s service problems, as I think the plugin was trying to connect to my Twitter account.

I’m going to try re-activating the plugin every few days to see if the problem resolves itself.

Creation Festival 2008

Last week I attended Creation Festival with 100,000 of my closest friends. Well, maybe not my closest friends, but that’s how many people were in attendance during the four-day festival.

I went with five members of my church’s youth group, a friend of one of the members and another leader. We had a group site with a nearby church, which allowed us to be much closer to the main and fringe stages than we would have if we had gone by ourselves. We (the eight of us) left Tuesday afternoon at 2:00, arrived at the festival shortly before 4:00 and had our portion of the site set up not too long afterward.

The festival didn’t officially start until Wednesday evening, so we had almost a full day to hang out and have fun. I played frisbee for a while that first day and throughout the week, including my first ever game of ultimate frisbee with a group camping nearby. It’s an awesome game, but quite difficult when playing on a hill!

It would take quite some time to review the entire festival, so I’ll just touch on some of my favorites.

Wednesday:

Thursday:

Friday:

Saturday:

And lastly… for those of you who’ve heard about how tarps are put down on the hill each morning, I found a video on YouTube of Saturday morning’s “tarp race.” It just so happens that Saturday wasthe only day where people had to go back and wait 30 minutes.

Laminin

Last night, at the end of my young adult group’s Bible study, one of the members told everyone about an interesting video on GodTube.  The video is an excerpt of Louie Giglio’s message “How Great is Our God!” and it focuses on laminin, one of the proteins in the human body.

Here’s the video (8m 44s):

Colossians 1:17 says:

17He is before all things, and in him all things hold together.

So, all things are held together in Christ. According to the Wikipedia article on laminin, it is a cell adhesion protein molecule that, in essence, glues the parts of our bodies together. Christ and laminin, then, perform the same function of holding things together.

If it stopped there, it would be cool enough, but there’s more. Check out the following scientific diagram of laminin:

Not only does laminin hold things together like Christ, it actually looks like the cross upon which Christ died for our sins. How awesome is that!?

I Love Podcasts

I’ve always been a fan of podcasts, but recently I’ve become quite addicted to them for a few reasons:

  • There are a number of TV shows I enjoy watching that I often miss due to working late or other TV conflicts (e.g. Countdown with Keith Olbermann).
  • I’ve discovered some great radio talk shows on NPR (specifically, 88.5 WAMU) that I often miss during the day because of meetings and other work activities.
  • It’s a great way to stay informed on topics I love, such as youth ministry, technology and Walt Disney World.

I currently subscribe to the following podcasts (links are to each podcast’s iTunes page):

This is by no means the largest list of podcast subscriptions I’ve seen, but with over 28 hours of recordings a week, it’s a lot to keep up with.

If you’re a fan of podcasts, let me know which ones you watch/listen to in the comments section below!

For Love of Air Conditioning

For the past few days, temperatures in Central PA (and much of the East Coast) have been in the mid-to-upper 90s with a fair amount of humidity. While the heat and humidity are rather oppressive, it’s easy to escape this deadly duo by seeking relief in an air-conditioned environment.

The apartment I’ve lived in for the past five years has had functional central air conditioning for all but five or six days: it was out for two or three days a couple summers ago and, as luck would have it, from about noon on Saturday until early Monday. That’s right: during the warmest weather we’ve had in quite some time, I was without air conditioning.

At first, I thought the system was struggling to keep up with the warm weather, as the air coming out of the vents was cool, but by no means cold. An hour or two later, I checked the temperature and it was, if I recall correctly, about 76 degrees. Not horrible, but a bit too high considering my thermostat was set at 70.

I decided to call my landlord and, again with my great luck, he was in New York City for the day. He said that one of his tenants in another town had a similar problem but reported it too late and it ended up killing the motor, requiring him to replace the entire unit. So, he suggested that I turn the AC off (!) until he could stop by on Sunday. It didn’t sound like I had any options, so I obliged.

On Sunday, he stopped by and checked the unit and saw that the wiring inside of it didn’t look right, but he couldn’t fix it himself; he’d have to check with his repairman who didn’t work on weekends (!). That meant another day and night of no AC. Fortunately, I was out of the house for most of the day because of church and a youth group event (tubing on the river and a picnic), but by the time I went to bed at 11:00 p.m. the temperature in the house was pushing 90.

Finally, Monday morning the repairman stopped by and took care of the problem. Fortunately it was just a problem with the wires, so, thankfully, the motor and compressor didn’t have to be replaced. I checked the apartment at 9:00 and the temperature was 80 with the thermostat at 68; I checked three hours later and the temperature was down another four or five degrees. By the time I got home from work at about 5:00 p.m., the temperature was a wonderfully cool 70.

Needless to say, I was quite thankful that the air conditioning was working again. However, during the almost 72 hours without it, I wondered what it must be like for people in the United States and other, poorer countries, who don’t have such amenities. I can’t imagine going to sleep each night during the summer with temperatures pushing 80. Though I didn’t like it at the time, I’m very thankful for all of the wonderful things with which God has blessed me!

Review: What Matters Most: When NO Is Better Than YES

After I finally finished reading a book I’d been working on for a few months, I went through the books in my “To Read” pile and chose Doug Fields’ What Matters Most: When NO Is Better Than YES.

I’d heard about this book quite some time ago on the Simply Youth Ministry Podcast and it had been in my “To Purchase” queue for quite awhile. While at a recent youth ministry event I noticed that the book was available and on sale, so I picked it up along with a couple others.

Fields’ book was a quick read (I started it during my lunch hour last Wednesday and finished it later that evening) yet it was chock-full of practical advice. Following are some of the things I took away from the book:

  • Busyness makes us look important but cripples our relationships. Busyness feeds our egos but ultimately starves our souls. Busyness fills our calendars but fractures our families. And busyness props up our images but shrinks our hearts. (21)
  • You need to learn to say no to many good things and wonderful people so you’ll have space to say yes to God, yes to the important people in your life, yes to priorities–yes to what matters most. (21)
  • Some warning signs to watch out for include constant clutter, addiction to speed (a fast-paced lifestyle, not the drug!), multitasking, superficiality, relationship fatigue, apathy and spiritual emptiness. (53-60)

I definitely recommend this book to those involved in ministry so they can learn how to say no before saying yes becomes damaging. This book is equally helpful, though, to those who are already over their heads in the sea of yeses and are looking for a life-saving device.

Review: Praise Habit: Finding God in Sunsets and Sushi

Earlier this week, I finally finished Praise Habit: Finding God in Sunsets and Sushi by David Crowder of David Crowder*Band fame. It took me much longer to read than I’d hoped/anticipated, but it was worth the wait.

The book focuses on redefining how we think about praising God; instead of being an event, Crowder suggests that it should be a lifestyle. He spends much of the book using various Psalms as examples of how to develop a habit of praise in everyday life.

There was one paragraph in the book that really stood out to me as an example of how most people praise God:

Much of our energy as Christians-attempting-to-live-devoted-lives centers on the development of patterns or activities to strengthen or deepen our “spiritual” selves, things previously mentioned, such as corporate worship, or scholastic theological study, or quite times, or praying before meals. And we thank that if we pray before a meal, it will set this moment apart and other unbelieving peoples might observe our devoutness and we will make a statement that will surely cause them to stop in their tracks. Then leaving that brief holy event well behind, feeling our obligation to “otherness” consummated, we engross ourselves in the devouring of hamburgers and French fries. But it is in the moments that follow our prayers that we are able to follow the trail of our true affections, our hidden motivations. It is in the gluttonous idolatry or tearful gratefulness that we consume the burger. It is in our conversations over the meal–the valuing or devaluing of the ones with whom we find ourselves exchanging conversation It is found in the gratuity at the end of the meal. While somebody else is talking, I usually find myself busily plotting ways to divert the subject matter back to myself rather than lending heart and ear and thought to their discourse. (p. 41)

It’s a lengthy paragraph, but Crowder is spot on. How many times have I prayed before a meal because I thought I had to, and, thus, rushed through it so I could “check it off my list”? The fact that I repeat the same rote prayer and then dive into my meal shows that I, to use Crowder’s words, consume the burger in gluttonous idolatry. Shouldn’t I be eating it in tearful gratefulness? Sure, the tears sound a bit over the top, but isn’t that the more appropriate way to praise God for the good fortune of having something to eat?

I highly recommend this book to those who yearn to get out of the rut of praising God the same way every day of their lives.